"Accept there is no single best self The sticky cultural idea that there is one 'best you' to achieve causes chronic dissatisfaction because, as the speakers explain, 'you contain more aliveness than one lifetime permits you to live out — there's more than one of you in there.' Their reframe is direct: 'There is no best you, but there are lots of good yous — let's go try some.' Accepting this eliminates the paralysis of wondering whether any given decision is moving you toward or away from a singular ideal, and frees you to experiment with multiple valid versions of a good life. Source: Bill Burnett & Dave Evans, Rich Roll Podcast, Designing a Life of Meaning"