"Trust off-camera honesty over on-camera accusations After years on reality TV, Ariana Madix reflected that she had trained herself to dismiss relationship rumors raised on the show as 'obviously for content,' which made her miss real warnings about the affair. She explained that she would have believed a warning 'if it was told to me off camera' or if a close friend had 'needed to tell me first because it's actually really real.' Anyone operating in a high-performance or public environment should treat information delivered privately and directly as far more credible than information delivered in a formal or performative setting. Source: Ariana Madix, Call Her Daddy, Ariana Madix"